You Become What You Think About.
Relapse simply put means going back
out drinking or drugging after being
clean for a period of time. Relapse is
often preventable. In class I am told
to be aware of the symptoms/warning
signs as they occur and take control
by making specific changes in my life.
Some of the conditions of your state of
mind that can cause relapse are:
. being depressed
. loss of self-confidence
. poor judgement
. compulsive/impulsive behavior
. confusion
. difficulty in making decisions
. easily irritated/angered
. no daily routine
. feeling helpless
. poor sleeping habits
. apathy
. withdrawal from usual activities
. can't concentrate/focus
Another very important factor is
to AVOID People, Places and Things
this simply means stay away from
ex drinking buddies, druggies,
crack dealers, prostitutes, cops,
or anyone else that reminds you
of your drinking and drugging days.
As the song says, friends in low places.
As far as places go that is simple
enough, bars, crack houses, cheap
motels, streets where you bought
your stuff, liquor stores, you know
the places, avoid them. Things are
anything that remind you of drinking
and drugging and the most important
thing to avoid is a relationship or
major decision for at least one year
into your sobriety. A relationship
gone south with take you with it.
I also think we alcoholic veterans
should avoid war stories about our
service because it can bring back
some unpleasant memories and push
that trigger.
Now we know what will cause a relapse,
in tomorrows blog I will discuss what
I learned to prepare myself so a
relapse will not occur.
If you should relapse, do not be ashamed,
get right back into your program. A wise
man once said, a failure just brought me
that much closer to success, if I learned
from that failure. Oh yes, I am not that
wise man, I struggle one day at a time.
Author: Alden Morrison
